I recently read an excellent piece written by Bobbie Jo Rohrberg on LipstickAndPolitics.com, National Infertility Awareness Week: Try A Little Tenderness. Bobbie Jo's piece nicely summed up all the issues that most infertile couples experience. I decided to to take the contents of my comment that I posted to her article and use it as my own blog post.
My wife and I attempted to have children for 12 long years, unsuccessfully. We visited some of the best clinics available. We endured the shots, poking and prodding associated with infertility diagnosis. We worked through it right up until the doctors wanted to get more specific as to who was the cause.
That's where we ended our quest. My wife and I did not want to know who was creating the issue. Not for selfish purposes. We just did not want the other to be burdened with the fact that they were the reason for our not being able to bear children.